As numerous studies show, both in medical and scientific research; as well as popular research in “women’s interest” magazines, a certain percentage of women do not reach orgasm consistently, even with direct clitoral stimulation, much less during coital intercourse. And there are so very many surveys that show that those women not having consistent orgasms are certainly not happy about it.
What if I were to tell you, that as long as you were not suffering from an actual medical condition, that you could “learn” to orgasm consistently. Not only could orgasm for you be consistent, but of longer duration and greater intensity.
IMAGINE – never having to feel the need to “fake-it” again.
IMAGINE – never feeling the “pressure” to reach orgasm again.
IMAGINE – never feeling sexually unfulfilled again.
IMAGINE – being completely uninhibited with your lover.
IMAGINE – what it would be like to become not just orgasmic but multi-orgasmic.
There are no medications or supplements to take. No bizarre exercise regimens to follow. All it takes is approximately three hours of your time to learn the fundamentals necessary to begin to unleash your true orgasmic potential.
You see, every nerve in your body is connected to your mind; and, inside your mind you are capable of infinite pleasure!
If you’re like most women, you already know that sex really happens in the “mind.” It’s one of the reasons that “romance” novels are consistently the largest revenue generators in the publishing industry by almost two to one compared to the next highest genre.
Although the mechanics of sex may establish the feedback of physical sensation in the body. It is the “thoughts” and the “feelings” generated by those thoughts, that give sensation its meaning. And meaning is everything when it comes to “responsiveness!”
For example: you’ve probably had the experience of being in a social situation that’s loud, due to other voices or music or both, and had someone you don’t know well, place their hand on your lower back while talking to you. And, you’ve also likely had a similar experience where your lover has placed their hand on your lower back while talking to you. It’s the same physical sensation; but, it has a very different meaning to you because of the context of “who” is touching you; and therefore, your response is different.
The mind, in fact the imagination, is where arousal starts.
You might be able to see why the imagination so important when you look at an early study conducted by Dr. Blaslotto at the University of Chicago.
In that study visualization was shown to be almost identical to actual experience.
For this study, Dr. Blaslotto split a group of test subjects into three groups and then tested each group on how many basketball free throws they could make in a set amount of time in order to establish a baseline measurement.
After this, he had the first group practice free throws every day for an hour.
The second group were to just intensely visualize themselves making free throws.
The third group did nothing.
After 30 days, he tested them again and these were the results:
The third group (aka control group) did not improve which was expected.
The first group, who physically practiced, improved by 24%.
The second group, who practiced ‘visually’ in their mind, improved by 23% without touching a basketball!
Since Dr. Blaslotto’s study there have been numerous other studies that confirm this phenomenon; but, until more recent discoveries in the neurosciences, especially in the area of neuroplasticity, it wasn’t really understood why this occurred.
I’m not going to bore you with all the science; I’ll just give you the bare bones executive summary of it all.
There is a part of the brain that functions as a virtual “simulator” and when a vivid, detail rich simulation (visualization) is run, the brain builds new connections to represent the experience.
The amazing thing is that the those connections are indistinguishable from those created by a real experience in the real world.
LEARN – to open yourself to new physical sensations.
LEARN – to open up your creative and imaginative mind.
LEARN – to have orgasms in “other” parts of your body (nipple-gasms and even kiss-gasms!)
LEARN – to “let go” and surrender yourself completely to the moment.
LEARN – to “dial-up” the intensity of your orgasms.
LEARN – to let go of negative thoughts and feelings that are holding you back.